Sunday, July 5, 2009

Quick! I need an opinion

I posted my second ad today. (And, boy, has the response been overwhelming! I've been reading/writing e-mails for about two hours ... I tell ya - this project is time consuming. It's no joke!) You'll get all the juicy goodness of the second ad when I'm done telling you all about the goodness of the first. Yes, there's MORE from the first -- be patient, my friends, be patient. Oh, and don't forget that the second ad has to expire before I can share it with you.

Anyway, I need your opinion, and I need it kind of quickly...

One of the responses to my second ad says he wants "a nice woman." I asked what that means to him. He said, "she should be honest." He also implied that if I'm not honest, I ought not continue to respond.

I'd like to oblige him.

So here's the question - is it dishonest for me to respond without telling him about my project? If so, I simply won't respond. If not, really? Is this honest?

5 comments:

  1. I think that, in order to be perfectly honest, you would need to disclose your project to this guy.

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  3. if you are strictly in "the project" for the projects sake, disclose. if you are open to maybe something more, still disclose, but maybe share it in jest....so that it has been disclosed, but not necessarily in a way that will offend him or make him feel like you are just looking for him to be a freak show. maybe i'm over thinking it.

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  4. Sorry, I didn't mean to delete that comment...

    I agree with framiko, that you need to tell him in order to be perfectly honest. But this is dating. Who is perfectly honest? Ever?

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  5. I think his parameter of honesty is too big. I say no. This is Stephanie, by the way. The one in Iowa.

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